Sunday, January 1, 2012

A Gleam on the Way

How effective was the first generation of the Ummah (nation) of Islam?

What is the importance of positivity in the life of a Muslim?
How has the Quran recorded this effectiveness?
These are important and serious questions about the value of positivity and effectiveness and what they represented in the life of the youth who established the civilization of this Ummah, and how they could be revived once again in the life of the youth of this generation, given that a great deal of good lies in them. Let us start with the Prophetic point of view on the path of effectiveness and warding off failure and negativity.
A Prophetic perspective on the path of effectiveness
O Allaah! I seek refuge with You from (being given to) failure, indolence, cowardice, (and from being sent back to) old geriatric age and niggardliness, and I seek refuge with You from the punishment of the grave, and from the affliction of both life and death.” [Muslim]
These are luminous Prophetic words, filled with positivity and carrying within their folds seeking refuge from negativity. This was the Prophetic perspective. In fact, the life of Muhammad  sallallaahu  `alayhi  wa  sallam ( may  Allaah exalt his mention ) was but a living example of that. The life of the Prophet Muhammad  sallallaahu  `alayhi  wa  sallam ( may  Allaah exalt his mention ) was the best ideal of a human being, in whom all the attributes of positivity were manifested and from whom all traces of negativity had been removed. The Companions  may  Allaah  be  pleased  with  them gathered around the pure spring of the noble attributes of Al-Mustafa  sallallaahu  `alayhi  wa  sallam ( may  Allaah exalt his mention ) and at the beginning of the Da‘wah (call to Islam. The majority of whom were young men, imbibing positivity, power and effectiveness, translating them into words and deeds in the world, and spreading them among those surrounding them, until they were able to establish an edifice of civilization of strong foundations and great power.
Armed with positivity, the youth of the Ummah set out in the different parts of the land of their Lord, building and constructing. They gave life to the land with strong arms of endeavor, and promulgated effectiveness in the hearts, which had long been possessed by negativity, thus, illuminating the universe with pleasure and delight.
Thus, the Islamic Ummah (nation), at the hands of its youth, presented to humanity the most beautiful gifts in all fields. The scientists of Islam presented to humankind the principles of the experimental scientific method based on practical experiment and scientific proof in order to reach a scientific fact, unlike the Greek philosophical method that is based on philosophy and theoretical postulates. Thus, it is the Muslims who presented to the entire world the basis of the modern renaissance, on which the European renaissance depended later on. [Hayaat An-Noor: Fareed Mannaa‘ p28]
This took place due to the fact that the youth of this Ummah were brought up on positivity, according to which each of them sought areas of work where he was most effective without waiting for it to come to him; making events happen, and not waiting for events to take place on their own. None of them would let a day pass until he had done an act pertaining to the religion or the world, which he liked to see on the Day of Judgment. This is reported by one of the positive youths of this Ummah, ‘Abdullaah ibn Mas‘ood  may  Allaah  be  pleased  with  him who said, “I hate to see a man without work; neither working for this world nor for the Hereafter.” [Hilyat Al-Awliyaa’: Abu Nu‘aym]
However, when we moved away, step by step, from that concept of positivity, the youths of our Ummah deviated, owing to a violent wind of negativity, which lulled most of them into a sense of complacence and subsequently, ruined them. It caused the disease of failure and indolence to spread among them, and consequently, we started hearing oft-repeated words that imply the aforesaid mental state such as: “I cannot”, “I am a failure”, “It is impossible [to achieve], this is the reality”, and so on.
A concrete reality
In order to come closer to the issue of positivity, we have to consider the reality. A man might be intelligent and possess high qualifications in the field of science, but, at the same time, he might not be effective. This is because he has been brought up in a culture which hinders him from any great achievement unless he gets rid of any traces of negativity.
There are communities characterized by individualism, selfishness and envy, and there are diseases which decay the soul, like haughtiness and arrogance. There are also communities whose people have ideas which encourage idleness, like those who read the Hadeeths (narrations) of the Messenger of Allaah  sallallaahu  `alayhi  wa  sallam ( may  Allaah exalt his mention ) about the future afflictions and battles and misunderstand them, and thus sit at home, and do nothing to support Islam, under the pretext that things are deteriorating, and it is useless to work, and so on.
No doubt, such examples and others, are found in reality. However, we should not continue to curse the darkness and loathe reality – in particular the reality of today's Muslim youth that is typically characterized by negativity -- and then satisfy ourselves with phrases of sorrow and regret. On the contrary, we should talk about positivity, its concept and importance, perchance we may light up the candles of effectiveness in the hearts of the youth.
The concept of positivity
First of all, we could define positivity as a Muslim’s personal movement, resulting from the sentient believing heart to change and reform the reality in conformity with the ordinances of Allaah The Almighty.
We may get more acquainted with effectiveness if we say that it is the best form of productivity that is based on perseverance and regularity of actions, as confirmed by the description given by Umm Salamah  may  Allaah  be  pleased  with  her of the deeds of the Messenger of Allaah  sallallaahu  `alayhi  wa  sallam ( may  Allaah exalt his mention ): “The dearest of deeds to the Messenger of Allaah  sallallaahu  `alayhi  wa  sallam ( may  Allaah exalt his mention ) is that which a servant does regularly, no matter how little it might be.” [Al-Albaani: Saheeh]
The same description is given by ‘Aa’ishah  may  Allaah  be  pleased  with  her of the deeds of the Messenger of Allaah  sallallaahu  `alayhi  wa  sallam ( may  Allaah exalt his mention ) when she said, “He used to do any deed regularly.”
Positivity in the Quran
In order to clearly perceive the concept of positivity in the Quran, it is sufficient to recite the following short Soorah (in which Allaah The Almighty Says what means): {By time, indeed, mankind is in loss, Except for those who have believed and done righteous deeds and advised each other to truth and advised each other to patience.} [Quran 103:1-3]
It shows that man is doomed to loss unless he has four characteristics, which in fact are the characteristics of the positive Muslim personality. According to As-Sa‘di  may  Allaah  have  mercy  upon  him
Allaah The Almighty enjoined loss upon everyone unless he has four characteristics:
1. To have faith in all things which Allaah The Almighty commanded to believe in. Faith is not complete without knowledge, which is an integral branch of faith.
2. The righteous deed includes all good works, hidden or apparent, pertinent to the right of Allaah The Almighty or the right of His servants, obligatory or recommended.
3. To advise each other to adhere to the truth -- which is faith and righteous deeds. In other words, they should advise and encourage each other to do good.
4. To advise each other to patience in the obedience of Allaah The Almighty, and abstention from the sins forbidden by Allaah The Almighty, and accept the decrees of Allaah The Almighty even if one finds them painful.
With the first two, man perfects himself, and with the other two, he perfects others. By having these four characteristics, man becomes safe from loss, and obtains great profit.” [Tayseer Al-Kareem: ‘Abd-Ar-Rahmaan ibn Naasir As-Sa‘di: 1:934]
At this point, after talking about the importance of positivity, we have to pause so that each of us asks himself: Am I really positive? Do I have a positive attitude in my life? Do I feel that I am really effective in life, or do I live among negative people? Also ask yourself: Positivity is to seek areas of work and not to sit waiting for them: Am I really like this?
Positive people exert an influence on events, unlike the negative ones who wait to see what events occur. Am I then from those who make events happen or those who wait for them to happen?
This is a pause, not only for blame, but also for assessment and introspection, after which each of us should wake up to seek his roles in life, and see how he can efficiently interact with them, and how he can best utilize this life. No doubt, we, as Muslim youth, have several missions to carry out in this world. Doing this would be impossible unless each of us becomes truly positive and effective in our sphere of activity.

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Friday, October 28, 2011

REPENT

Repent - a new poem
By Shaykh Muhammad Al-Yaqoubi

Repent, repent, repent and cry
Open your hands; pray and try
... ... Beseech Allah; and say here am I
Have mercy on me before I die

Start your life anew today
And throw the wrong of the past away
Prepare good works for the Final Day
And when God commands you, hear and obey

Thank the Lord by day and night
Walk straight; and keep right
Guided by the Divine Light
To find the Garden at your sight

Embrace Islam and worship the Lord
Allah, the only One adored
Love Him most and step on-board
With His servants for the reward

Believe in Muhammad, the perfect man
The Seal of prophets; from Adnan
Devote for him your life span
In the hope of joining his caravan

Pray to Allah and recite the Quran
Invoke His Names whenever you can
To taste the sweetness of iman
And reach the station of Ihsan

Saturday, October 15, 2011

HOW ISLAM PROTECTS WOMEN..

George : Bro, I respect Islam but just couldn’t understand why women must cover ...themselves. If you said God command women to cover themselves then why still majority doesn’t cover themselves? Does Islam really cruel that there is no option for women?

Khalid : Hey George. Thanks for the kind words brother. There is always an option in Islam. Example in M’sia highway, the speed limit is 110km/ph but you still see some people exceed the speed limit right? The law is there but is up to individual to obey or disobey because end of the day each individual will be accountable for their own action. So there is an option is Islam – obey or disobey.

George : If there is an option is Islam then why women MUST cover themselves?

Khalid : Bro, are you born to this world with clothes on?

George : Of course no. Everyone is born naked.

Khalid : Then why are you wearing clothes now when you are born naked?

George : Modesty brother.

Khalid : There you go my brother. You have just answered your own question - Modesty.

George : Ok. But isn’t modesty will be enough just by covering their body part and let them flaunt their beautiful hair?

Khalid : Bro, what will you do if you have RM10,000 cash with you now? Where will you keep?

George : Of course I will kept in my pocket or in bank.

Khalid : But why don’t you flaunt your asset (cash)?

George : Only crazy people will do it bro. No one would do that because by doing that you are inviting trouble especially those thieves are everywhere.

Khalid : Truly agreed with you brother. Islam protects women because they are valuables. The Creator wants them to become private property instead of public property. By covering oneself it reduces the risk of unwanted advances by opposite’s sex.

George : But we still read and heard people who are covering themselves being raped or molested.

Khalid : So in this case do you mean that bank should not install security system in their premises and engaged security personnel to guard the bank because with all these, bank still being robbed so why bother to do all these right & get the bank to just expose their bank vault.

George : You have a point there brother.

Khalid : May The Creator guide all of us, God Willing.

p/s Did any of Muslim women here feel being force or oppress to covering themselves by wearing hijab?

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Sunday, October 2, 2011

Sunnahs of Sleeping:

To sleep in the state of Wuzu,To make the bed yourself,Dust the bed thrice before retiring to bed, One should change into some other clothes (e.g.pyjamas ) before going to sleep,It is Sunnah to sleep immediately after Isha Salaah,To apply surmah in both the eyes,To brush the teeth with a miswaak, To sleep on the right hand side,To sleep with the right palm under the right che...ek,To keep the knees slightly bent when sleeping,To sleep on a bed or to sleep on the floor are both sunnah,To face Qiblah.if possible,To recite Surah Mulk, before sleeping,To recite Ayatul Kursi,To recite Surah Ikhlaas, Surah Falaq and Surah Naas before sleeping 3 times and thereafter blow over the entire body thrice,Recite Tasbeeh-e-Fathima before sleeping.( i.e. 33 X Subhan Allah 33 X Alhamdulillah and 34 X Allahu Akbar),To recite the dua before sleeping. ( i.e. Be ismik allahumma amutu wo ahya),To wake up for Tahajjud Salaah.

Which Are You? Carrot, Egg, and Coffee.

A daughter complained to her father about life and how
things were so hard for her. She did not know how she was going to make
... it and wanted to give up. She was tired of struggling. It seemed that as
soon as one problem was solved, a new one arose.

Her father, a chef, took her to the kitchen. He filled three pots with
water and placed each on a high fire. Soon the pots came to a boil. In
one he placed carrots, in the second he placed eggs, and the last he
placed ground coffee beans. He let them sit and boil, without saying a
word.





The daughter sucked her teeth and impatiently waited,
wondering what he was doing. In about twenty minutes he turned off the
burners. He fished the carrots out and placed them in a bowl. He pulled
the eggs out and placed them a bowl. Then he ladled the coffee out and
placed it in a
bowl.Turning to her he asked. "What do you see?" "Carrots, eggs, and
coffee," she replied.

He brought her closer and asked her to feel the carrots. She did and
noted that they were soft. He then asked her to take an egg and break
it. After pulling off the shell, she observed the hard-boiled egg.





Finally, he asked her to sip the coffee. She smiled as
she tasted its rich aroma. She said, "What's the point?" He explained
that each of the items had faced the same adversity -
boiling water - but each reacted differently. The carrot went in strong
and hard. But after being subjected to the boiling water, it softened
and became weak. The egg had been fragile. Its thin outer shell had
protected its liquid interior. But after sitting through the boiling
water, its inside became hardened. The ground coffee beans were unique,
however. After they were in the boiling water, they had changed the
water.

"Which are you?" he asked his daughter. "When adversity knocks on your
door, how do you respond? Are you a carrot, an egg, or a coffee bean?"

The Importance of Obedience to Parents.

After obedience to Allah (s) and His Messenger, it is most important to be obedient to one's parents. Being polite and helpful to one's parents is the duty of every Muslim.
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Children sometimes do not realize how much their parents have done for them. Every mother bears the pains of pregnancy and childbirth. She often spends many sleepless nights patiently caring for her baby's needs. If the baby is sick, parents nurse him to health. They gladly spend their money and time to buy clothes, food and medicine for the baby and toys to make him happy.

As their child grows, they try to provide him a good education and a loving home. They are there for all important events in their child's life, from his first words to his college graduation, professional career and marriage, giving him all their love and support. Even if he makes a mistake, they never stop loving him. Most of all, they pray that their child will grow up to be successful and happy in this life and in the Hereafter.

Returning the Love and Kindness of Parents

Parents feel very happy if their son or daughter is kind, polite, helpful and obedient. If their child is rude, disobedient or lazy, they feel dissapointed and even embarrassed. After all, the way a child behaves reflects on his parents.

When they become old and too week physically to care for themselves, parents need loving care, just as they gave their children when they were young. We should never forget that if our parents had not taken care of us when we were young and helpless, we probably would not have survived. We truly owe our lives to our parents, so taking care of them in their old age should be our pleasure.

The Qur'an commands us to show kindness to parents in the following words:

Your Lord has decreed that you worship nothing but Him, and that you be kind to parents. Whether one or both of them attain old age in your life, say not to them a word for contempt, nor repel them but address them in terms of honor. And, out of kindness, lower to them wing of humility, and say: My Lord! Bestow on them Your mercy, even as they cherised me in childhood.

(Al-Isra' 17:23-14)

Obedience to Allah (s) Come First

If parents ask their children to do something which Allah (s) has forbidden, children should obey Allah (s) over the order of their parents. However, they should respectfuly explain to their parents the reasons for their disobedience. If the parents are not Muslims, Rasulullah (s) taught us to be kind and respectful to them. We should take care of them and continue to explain Islam to them.

How to be Obedient and Helpful to Parents

In every home, many chores need to be done. When a child comes home from school, he should make it a point to help his parents before going off to play. Tidying up, washing clothes, mowing the lawn are a few ways we can help our parents. By offering our help, we show them how much we love and respect them.

Children should do their best to obey their parents. Children should not argue with their parents, refuse to help them, or make a fuss over every small matter. If a child is asked to take a bath, change clothes, do the vacuuming, or do homework, he/she should try to do so as soon possible. Respecting our parents' wishes is another way we can show our parents we love them.

We Have Learned:

*Obedience to our parents is very important in Islam.
*We must be polite and loving to our mother and father.
*We should help our parents in jobs around the house.

Sunday, June 12, 2011

YOU ARE WHAT YOU READ.

The way Junk food is nicely packed, widely advertised, and made tasty but no nutritive value, junk reading too is available in the same mode and no nutritive value to your morals or ethics or happiness.

Junk minds are the results of junk books.

‎'You are what you read'. The books that you read are the ones that will influence your thoughts, your actions, your character and finally all of these will be combinely playing an important role in grading you on the day of judgement. That is why Allah has always revealed Books to construct our thoughts properly and shape our characters. The Qur'an is a miraculous book.

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